I agree that the church desperately needs transparency. Our lack of honesty is turning away a generation. It also makes many Church members feel inferior because they struggle with issues and feel all alone in that struggle because they think other Christians are not struggling at all due to their lack of honesty and transparency about those struggles. I'm not saying we should share every intimate detail, but we should at the very least admit that all of us have struggles of some type. And, if that begins with Church leadership, the members will then be free to be honest and real, themselves.
As this relates to pornography, one other issue we are not being honest about is that we want to pretend that only those who go to recovery groups concerning this issue struggle with this temptation. They do, but they are not the only ones. The vast majority in the pews, not going to a recovery group, struggle with this temptation and stronghold as well. We are inundated with lustful temptations via the media at every turn. This is not isolated. It is rampant. Please, please, let's be honest about it. We will never find freedom without the truth!
May pastors lead their churches in being honest and transparent. The people with an humble heart and broken spirit will follow. And then maybe a generation will see us as an example of transparency and honesty instead of as self-righteous bombastic hypocrites. Not to say that this is how most Christians are...I trust they are not...but unfortunately this is how we are becoming more and more perceived.
Any thoughts by anyone else out there about this???