My wife is a triathlete. It is an addicition
like any other. My issue is not the excerise or the
4am mornings. It is the changes to her personality.
It is no longer.."I would like to go for a bike
ride" it has become "...I HAVE TO ride my bike or I
have to put in my hours..." She has become an
exceptionally selfish, self serving person. All
things in moderation, but this is the adoption of a
life style that I had no input with.
Worse is I have become more selfish the her. I have
become to hate, with a deep seatted passion,
everything and everybody related to her
involvement, including her sometimes. I do not want
to live my life like this. I should be able to
support her and enjoy her passion. Instead, I see
it as an obsession. How do I change and accept her
choices? I ask god for his guidance to help me, I
pray constantly.