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Spouse of a Porn Addict

I posted my story on this site a few months ago and then my husband posted his a week or so ago. We've been married 31 years and I can say, all this devasted me at first! We have been traveling this accountabilty journey since Sept. and it hasn't been easy. We are using accountiblity software on his computer and iphone. I get reports of everything that looks the least bit questionable. Our situation is different then most because we started working together right before all of his sin was exposed. I couldn't understand why God was directing me to go to work for the same company as him until I got there and saw the REAL man I was married to! I can honestly say, the only thing that has kept us together is the close relationship I have with God. Without that, I would have never made it. When God would say things like "love him to completion" and "protect your husband, his soul depends on it" I didn't know what He was talking about. All I can say is, listen to God's voice...I mean REALLY LISTEN and He will direct your steps. He has never failed me! Our marriage has never been better. We still struggle with dealing with all of the sin of his past and there is a lot! His wasn't just porn but affairs and all that goes along with sex addiction. I will not lie and say that it's been easy, but I can say, it's been worth it. Had it not been for him having a willing heart, it would have never worked. You can't help someone that doesn't want it and won't admit he has a problem. Don't allow him to shift the blame to you. It's not your fault! I will be praying that your husband comes to the same low point that mine did and finds help in Christ. That truly is the the only answer!

Thank you so much for those words of encouragement! I am sure that they are greatly needed by many who come to this website!
by Rick, 8 months, 3 weeks ago

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