If you are dating someone that looks at porn,
RUN don't walk away. The bible says to flee sexual
immorality. It is insidious.
My husband of 9 years was addicted to porn when we
got married. I had no idea how destructive this is
to a realtionship. He is otherwise a very good man.
He agreed to go to counseling 2 years ago and was
able to give up the porn. But then he said his lust
for looking at other women became even worse
because he did not have access to porn on the
computer. He even acted out with 2 of my cousins
and I have lost them as friends because of it. The
last time was so horrific (he consentually raped me
because of being so excited from looking at my
cousin in a bathing suit all day)I was in pain for
days, that is how I figured out why, he just jumped
on top of me and pounded away as if I was just
something to relief his lust. This was the last
straw for me.
He has gotten deliverance from this addiction. But
so much pain has come from it that I don't know if
I want to be married to him or can even respect him
again, even if I forgive him.
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